some tips to follow while conversing with a person

Here are some tips to follow while conversing with a person

· Always speak politely. Wear a smile on you face and a sweet tone in your speech.

· Always say what is just and fair regardless of any loss to you, friend or relative.

· Be soft spoken, reasonable and sympathetic in your conversation.

· When a woman talks to a man, she should be straight and clear rather than using a sweet tone lest the listener misunderstands.

· Always be brief and to the point in your talk. It is unfair to prolong discussion without reason.

· Never indulge in flattery, mind your honour, dignity and respect

· Do not interrupt in other people's conversation without their permission.

· When you talk to someone older to you, talk to them with warmth and affection.

· With parents- talk to them in a soft way and never be harsh in your speech as it is a sin if you do so.

· Speak slowly and patiently so that your words are understood by all.

· Most youngsters rush through their answers when they are questioned- so... think before you speak.

· It is wise to be a good listener and use your sense of humour in a conversation cautiously as one never knows it could hurt someone unintentionally.

In Surah Hujurat, the believers are ordained not to raise their voices above the Prophet (Pbuh). So gentleness seems to be the core of all conversations we have with each other in our day -to- day life. Relationships remain harmonious when our conversations are gentle, to the point, polite and focussed. So be the best when you converse!

Some people actually ENJOY making other people feel bad. Some women actually ENJOY rejecting men. It gives them a feeling of POWER.